hw does love work?

generally,
you'll want the supposed significant other to be there for you,through thick and thin.
rather than through thick or thin.

similarly,
if you truly believe that ur significant other loves you,
you'd know that he/she would want to be there for you too.
and definitely,
you'd not even request for him/her to stay away.

say,
how else is a better situation than the crisis of a seriously ill family member?
definitely,
you'd want ur supposed significant other with you.
at the same time,with ur family.

but noooooo,
he'd rather i stay away.

hw is that suppose to make ME feel?
you fucking dickhead.

how obvious is it?
you dont love me enough
or
you dont believe that i love you.

so what's the fucking point?